Triple Talaq—The Cult Of ‘Instant Divorce’ In Islam

Recently, India’s top court banned the controversial law that allowed Muslim men to end marriage by uttering talaq— Arabic word for divorce—three times.

But what is this cult of instant divorce?

Triple talaq is a form of Islamic divorce which has been used by Muslims in India. It allows any Muslim man to legally divorce his wife by stating the word talaq three times in oral, written, or more recently electronic form.

This mode of divorce is not universal among Muslims across the world, as many other Islamic schools of thought prefer the divorce process to be deferred, in many cases over a period of three months. The government has cited the example of many predominantly Muslim countries, including Pakistan, that have banned instant divorce.

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Although, divorce in Islam can take a variety of forms, some initiated by the husband and some initiated by the wife, men take undue advantage to this cult of instant divorce. This sort of divorce without gap between is considered not approved in Islam It is too rash, unfair and condemn-able. Only some of the laws given in the Quran is straight forward and the rest are subject to interpretation and the interpretations may change based on the social and economic development of man. Instant divorce is one such issue.

There is a 3-step process to follow divorce as per Sharia law:

  1. A couple can apply for first talaq in any judiciary body. After first one, Islam gives them one more chance for re-uniting within a waiting period of 3 months. A couple can re-unite within this waiting period, without any new marriage contract or following any rituals that is been followed in newly marriages.
  2. A couple can apply for second talaq in any judiciary body. After second one, Islam gives them last chance for re-uniting within same waiting period of 3 months, without any new marriage contract or following any rituals that is been followed in newly marriages.
  3. A couple can apply for third talaq in any judiciary body. After third one, they can’t re-unite.

In traditional Islamic jurisprudence, instant divorce is considered to be a particularly disapproved, but legally valid, form of divorce. Changing social conditions around the world have led to increasing dissatisfaction with traditional Islamic law of divorce since the early 20th century and various reforms have been undertaken in different countries. Contrary to practices adopted in most Muslim-majority countries, Muslim couples in India are not required to register their marriage with civil authorities.

Muslim marriages in India are considered to be a private matter, unless the couple decided to register their marriage under the Special Marriage Act of 1954. Owing to these historical factors, the checks that have been placed on the husband’s unilateral right of divorce by governments of other countries, such as prohibition of instant divorce, have not been implemented in India.

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There was a desperate ned to ban this cult because of the following reasons:

  • It creates Inequality between men and women. Thus, violating one of our fundamental rights—right to equality.
  • It’s immoral towards women which is unacceptable in Indian society.
  • The practice brings women—who are completely dependent on men for their livelihood—into the streets. And, many of them suicide too.

Quran was revealed on him from the creator which includes guidance for people and Islamic laws. Since these laws are revealed by the creator himself and there is no one who is more just than him then the question of injustice to anyone does not rises here. Even if we talk about concept of divorce in Islam.

Usually, the term is used to signify that after saying divorce three times, then couple cannot be together ever but reality is something different, actually the concept of instant divorce doesn’t exist in Quran. It’s something misinterpreted and invented by people.

For more details, one can refer to chapter 65 of the holy Quran that deals with the issue of divorce.

 

Husband And Wife In Islam

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Marriage is a sacred bond entered into by two people who are committed in their goal to fulfill their lives and attain the pleasure of their creator. It’s also a natural human impulse to want to share your life with someone special and create a family.

When everything is new, it is easy to remain enthusiastic, but the reality is that somehow along the way in that journey, many people lose sight of the beauty in a good marriage and fall into negative patterns. The truth is that the bond between a husband and wife in Islam is something that needs to be grown and cultivated with equal effort from both sides.

Your wives are a clothing for you and you too are a clothing for them. Quran 2:187.

What this essentially means, is that each marriage partner has the responsibility to protect the other’s honor. Marriage is the ultimate act of team work. With this in mind, protect your partner, speak positive into their life. Remember that you aren’t just a marital partner, but the other half of a winning team. Bearing this in mind, you owe it yourself and your marriage to fuel your mind with positive energy and how you do this is by reinforcing the good times. Speak about your joys, talk about those things that make you both laugh, highlight each other’s positive attributes and qualities. It’s in this manner that you give your marriage a firm foundation to stand upon.

And of His signs is that He has created spouses for yourselves from your own selves so you might take comfort in them and He has created love and mercy among both of you. In this there is evidence—of the truth—for the people who carefully think. Quran 30:21.

Love and mercy should be the hallmarks of any solid marriage and relationship. We see that it’s stipulated within the scriptures. But is this truly what is practiced in modern daily life? The truth is that once you are in a routine, with a person that you’ve been married to for a while, it is easy to take certain acts of kindness for granted. Just taking the time to articulate the words thank you between a husband and wife, is a good start. You can also express your gratitude through acts of consideration, doing something thoughtful or using your own perception to do something meaningful for your partner.

When all is said and done, there are a number of ways in which to add positive energy to a marriage.  Often, the spice that is missing in a marriage comes in the simple form of being kinder, listening more and taking the other’s thoughts and feelings into consideration.