A brothel is a horrible place where men can spend a little money for a few minutes of sex, that will scar a woman for a lifetime.
For decades, more than one million girls are enslaved in brothels throughout the world. They’re enticed, deceived or kidnapped by traffickers and forced to work in red-light districts. Sex workers are forced to deal with shame and stigma from society.
A visual representation
It’s evening time. The sounds of honking, curses, and Hindi film songs from the 1990s decorate the ambiance. Women—of all ages—are posing in front of matchbox-sized shanties. Frustrated, angry, hungry and evil men are ogling these women. Police vans are taking rounds. The local beer bar is overcrowded. Few men with a filthy look in the eye and filmi-language, walking around the street to hunt potential customers.
At late hours of the night, one minor girl is dragged out of a black-yellow taxi and bashed. She’s crying for help but no one comes to her rescue. She’s taken inside a matchbox-sized shanty and closed in the room. The room is filled with smoke and in a little while, you hear a loud lament followed by a long scream.
This is a typical scene of any red light area of India.
My experiences with brothels
I have visited several red light areas in India; especially the Kamathipura area of Mumbai. I had been inside this hell-paradise quite a few times, a couple of time as a customer but mostly as a company to naughty friends. I sat outside and talk to other customers or prostitutes while friends would do their act.
One fine day, one of my friends, who was doing a research on human trafficking and illegal sex trade, wanted to visit places in Mumbai to do her homework. I took her to several places in Mumbai—Falkland Road, Shukla Street, Congress House, Pila House, Master Wadi, Darukhana, Ghatkopar Station Lane, Space Garden, Unity Compound, and many more I can’t even remember.
Along with her, I also got to know about the life of a prostitute in a brothel. I heard heart-ripping stories; each one more painful than the previous.
The story of Shabnam
While sitting outside waiting for my friends, I would talk to prostitutes that I would eventually befriend.
Shabnam was one such friend.
Forced into prostitution, she was sold for INR 20,000 by a relative who promised her a job in the city of dreams. She was bashed and raped every day until she surrendered. After a few weeks of torture, the agents gave her dozes of steroid to look voluptuous and beaten every time she said no to sex.
The worst part was that she would be forced to have sex with 30-40 customers every day, and her share was mere INR 100!
The story inside the brothel is usually not something that surprises us but I am shocked to know that men wouldn’t come for sex most of the time. Shabnam told us that men usually came to talk, beat, torture her. They came to remove their frustration, irritation, and anger that can’t find an outlet elsewhere. She cleared our misconception of sexual gratification and explained to us that the main purpose is usually a vulgar display of power.
It’s shocking but true.
The problem with society
The frustrated and irritated men find a brothel perfect to express their emotions. Some just talk and cry during their session with a prostitute. Perhaps if tearful little boys were comforted instead of being shamed, they wouldn’t be angry men struggling to express and empathize with their emotions.
The making of a prostitute
If you have not heard about paid-rape, you should visit such hell-paradise once in your life. Customers pay thousands of rupees to deflower a young virgin girl. Most of these girls are victims of the Devadasi culture, extreme poverty leads to the family selling off their young virgin daughters to brothel owners.
All this in the name of lust!
The sex industry
The sex trade industry is the engineering for inhumanity. It’s far worse than we can ever imagine. The worst part is that it’s happening almost everywhere in the world. Frustrated, angry, hungry and evil men are crushing the dignity of innocent women in name of self-gratification.
Prostitution is legal in India. A few related activities including soliciting in a public place, curb-crawling, owning or managing a brothel, prostitution in a hotel, child prostitution, pimping, and pandering are illegal. There are however many brothels illegally operating in Indian cities including Mumbai and Delhi.
The future of prostitutes
Some die, some retire as a prostitute and become the manager, some run away, some get murdered, and some become a documentary or a blog post. There’s no escape for them from the brothel because even after they come out of one, society puts them in an even bigger—and deadlier—social brothel.