After years of what people call fictional successful marriage life, I’ve concluded an awesome married life, a truly successful one. Here’s my secret formula:
- Not too much dependency, not too much freedom. The right combination is inter-dependency.
- Marriage isn’t a battlefield to prove supremacy over each other
- Compassion is the key. If you don’t have in you, you can’t give it
- Replace marriage with the concept of soul-mate
- Learn something from marriage. Marriage represents the whole world in a miniature form: it teaches you many things
- The ordinary marriage is an unconscious bondage
- Marriage is beyond bondage. It gives freedom. Love is freedom. Freedom isn’t dependency
- Marriage isn’t an effort to legalize love. It goes far beyond and higher
- Man, and woman isn’t opposite, they’re complementary. The complete each other
- SSS — Simplicity, Service, Stillness
I hope these tips will be useful for you. If you’ve some tips to offer, please feel free to comment.